EJEKAN NAMA ORANG TUA SEBAGAI KEKERASAN SIMBOLIK DALAM FENOMENA BULLYING VERBAL REMAJA
DOI:
https://doi.org/10.53958/wb.v11i1.959Keywords:
Bullying Verbal, Ejekan Nama Orang Tua, Kekerasan Simbolik, Agresi Relasional, Remaja, Bimbingan dan KonselingAbstract
Perundungan di sekolah menengah pertama sering kali tidak muncul sebagai agresi verbal yang terang-terangan, melainkan tersembunyi dalam candaan yang telah menjadi norma di kalangan remaja. Bentuk dominan yang ditemukan adalah ejekan yang melibatkan nama orang tua siswa. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk meneliti alasan di balik penggunaan ejekan nama orang tua sebagai candaan dalam interaksi remaja, serta memaknainya sebagai bentuk kekerasan simbolik dalam bullying verbal. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif dengan metode fenomenologis. Data diperoleh melalui wawancara mendalam dengan guru Bimbingan dan Konseling serta peserta didik, observasi langsung terhadap interaksi siswa di sekolah, dan dokumentasi pendukung. Hasil penelitian mengungkap bahwa pelaku memandang ejekan nama orang tua sebagai humor dan sarana membangun kedekatan sosial, namun korban mengalami dampak psikologis yang serius, seperti rasa malu, sedih, takut, dan ketidaknyamanan di lingkungan sekolah. Fenomena ini diperkuat oleh dinamika kelompok sebaya, agresi relasional, serta normalisasi bahasa yang dilegitimasi melalui respons lingkungan. Kesimpulan penelitian ini menyatakan bahwa ejekan nama orang tua adalah manifestasi kekerasan simbolik yang dinormalisasi dalam budaya pergaulan remaja, namun kerap luput dari perhatian institusional, sehingga memerlukan perhatian mendalam dalam layanan bimbingan dan konseling di sekolah.
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